Anal Douche Superior Medical Materials Douche for Women Men enemas Bulbs, 7 Ounce

I think the people who have reviewed this item negatively didn't read the product description or something. The included tip is pretty much the standard size for an enema. It's the same size that comes with those larger red rubbery enema bag and hose kits or most OTC enemas at the drug store. If it hurts you to insert it then please don't try to do so, but also please remember that it will probably be uncomfortable if you're not used to inserting an enema tip! Any hemorrhoids or other growths will make this procedure more difficult. I definitely recommend using a lubricant; Amazon sells that in many different forms, including single use water-based K-Y and Surgi-lube jelly packets. Since you don't need sterility in this instance, you can even use cooking oil or a mild lotion (warning: try to keep any oil or lotion off the bulb, and be sure to clean the outside of the bulb after use). FOLLOW THE DIRECTIONS and insert it pointed towards your navel; this may be easier for some people lying on their side with the upper leg bent towards the chest. You may find that you need to adjust the insertion angle depending on your personal anatomy. The tip is long for a reason: you need to get it all the way past the anal sphincters, so slowly insert the tip as far as you comfortably can. Gently squeeze the bulb until the solution is inside you. Follow any instructions from a doctor if that's why you're using it, otherwise try to hold the solution as long as you can before using the toilet. If you're just trying to clean/clear the rectum, use the bulb again a 2nd time. That's all you should need if your BM's are "normal", according to something I read written by a freaking PORN star.As for leaking, it hasn't with me. Do make sure you follow the instructions and gently sort of screw the tip into the bulb until the tip's bottom flange meets the top of the bulb. And do completely insert the tip into your rectum when using it, or you'll get a shower of the enema externally since you haven't gotten the tip past the anal sphincters.Filling it could not be easier. Again, follow the instructions. After making sure the tip is securely inserted into the bulb and before you need whatever you are using inside of it, squeeze the bulb tightly so that one side of it meets the other. This will expel all the air and create a kind of vacuum. Keeping the bulb squeezed, insert the end of the tip into the bottom of whatever you are using it for and STOP squeezing the bulb. The vacuum will slowly cause the solution to enter the bulb. As long as you keep the tip completely submerged into whatever you want inside of it, the bulb will fill with it. Once full, remove the bulb tip from the solution, and hold the bulb upright until you are ready to use it. This bulb does have a rounded end, as both pictured and described, so you may find resting it upright difficult if you need to use both hands for something else. One solution is to rest it on top of a small cup or glass; be careful with the height of the cup or glass so the bulb won't accidentally cause it to tip over.The only difficulty with this product is cleaning the interior out once you have used it. I think that should be obvious to anyone considering purchasing this type of enema, and not a reason for any dissatisfaction if you carefully consider that particular drawback for this kind of enema before purchasing. Others have written about good methods you can use to clean both the bulb and the tip well.This is an excellent product if you keep in mind that cleaning it out may be tedious. And if you're only using warm water for your enema, clean up goes much faster. :-)P.S. I did pay attention when science was taught at school, so I know that I am using the term "vacuum" and reason for the bulb filling incorrectly. However, I thought it best illustrated the description of how to fill the bulb.